Deeper Connection through Spiritual Direction.
Have you ever found yourself overwhelmed by the relentless pace of your work in God’s mission? Pouring out so much to others, yet feeling that your own spirit is running on empty? The immense joys and profound challenges of your calling are real and significant. At times, it can feel like there's just not enough time or space for your own spiritual growth and reflection.
Imagine having space set aside to dedicate time to your own journey, exploring your experience of God in a way that renews your spirit and enriches your contribution in the Kingdom. Our Spiritual Directors are trained to meet you exactly where you are, offering a compassionate and personally-tailored approach to nurture your soul that is biblically grounded and holistic in focus.
Through our one-on-one sessions, you'll have the opportunity to
Reflect Deeply on Your Spiritual Journey. Explore your relationship with God in a supportive and non-judgmental space, uncovering insights that can transform your life with God, others, and how you relate to your work in God’s Kingdom.
Reignite Your Passion for Ministry. Gain new perspectives and rejuvenate your sense of connection with God, enabling you to serve with greater joy and effectiveness.
Cultivate Inner Peace and Resilience. Develop habits of the heart that foster connection with God and others, helping you navigate the challenges of ministry with grace and strength.
Our pastoral approach is rooted in the fact that God desires your good where you are right now, even if it isn’t where you thought you would be. We recognize that the work you do is both beautiful and demanding, and that your spiritual well-being is essential for sustainable ministry. By focusing on your experience of God, a spiritual director can help you deepen your connection with God in ways that are meaningful and empowering for your life and your ministry.
Whether you're feeling worn out, seeking clarity, or simply desiring a deeper connection with God, our spiritual directors are here for you.
Let's explore how you can experience God more fully, together. Take the first step towards a more balanced and fulfilling ministry life by connecting with us today.
What is Spiritual Direction?
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Spiritual Direction is a space to rest, to discern, and to lean into God's presence.
Spiritual Direction is an ongoing process that explores what your experience of God is like, how you are hearing God’s voice in your life (or not), and what apprenticeship to Jesus looks like where you are right now. Spiritual Direction is about growing in awareness of and intimacy with God to live well and rightly in God’s Kingdom right where you are.
How do I know if spiritual direction is right for me?
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Are you feeling disconnected from God in your life or ministry?
Working with a spiritual director can help you foster a renewed awareness of how God is showing up with you and for you, both in your work and every other part of your life.
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Are you struggling to keep up with spiritual practices that help you feel closer to God?
Ministry is often fast-paced and all over the place. A spiritual director can help you navigate what it looks to create space to connect with God in the midst of the life you are leading right now, not the life you wish you had.
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Do you feel restless or unsatisfied with your current season of the faith journey?
The spiritual life looks different for each of us at different phases of our lives. A spiritual director can help you name the season of the spiritual life in which you find yourself and develop the practices you need to connect with God right where you are.
Hear about what spiritual direction can do for you.
Meet our Spiritual Directors
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Bill Altman
Bill lives with his wife, Missy, in Evansville, Indiana, where he serves as the adult spiritual growth director at Crossroads Christian Church. They have three young-adult children, Elisa, David, and Ross. Bill has been involved in church planting in Ukraine, New York City, and Charlotte, NC. He recently completed his training in Spiritual Direction through Lipscomb University and takes great joy in participating with what the Holy Spirit is doing in someone’s life. He loves the ministry of presence and walking with those who are seeking to see and understand more deeply their spiritual journey and their identity as a child of God.
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Murphy Alvis
Murphy lives in Joplin, Missouri with his wife Tasha and two children, Evelynn and Atticus where he serves as the Director of Coaching and Spiritual Direction with TRAIN International as well as a trainer for Coaching Mission International and Adjunct Professor of Spiritual Direction at Ozark Christian College. He is a professionally-trained coach, a spiritual director, and has served in churches of many different shapes and sizes. Murphy loves to walk with people in the middle of major life transitions, in the midst of faith and discipleship struggle, and those who want to explore what an interactive life with God can look like.
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Missy Dabbs
Missy currently lives in Auburn, Alabama with her husband, Matt and two sons, Jonah and Elijah. Over the years she has taught elementary school, worked as a relationship coach, worked as a professional counselor, as a minister’s wife, and is currently a spiritual director. Missy and her husband, along with a few other families, helped plant a church in their own backyard during the pandemic in 2020 by reaching out to their neighborhood. Missy received a MA in Christian Spiritual Formation and Leadership from Friends University in 2020 and is certified as a spiritual director through Sustainable Faith. She loves journeying with others in their walk with God and seeing the movement of God in others’ lives.
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Wendy Dean
Wendy has three adult children and currently lives in Joplin, Missouri with her husband Jason and her goldendoodle, Pippin. She is employed as the Education Program Coordinator with Renovaré and assists in facilitating the Renovaré Institute, a two year training in Spiritual Formation. She received a BA in Psychology from the University of North Texas and a MA in Spiritual Formation as well as a Certification in Spiritual Direction from Portland Seminary. Wendy’s approach to spiritual formation is to offer a welcoming space for discernment and curiosity, walking alongside people as they navigate the joys and struggles of life with God.
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Leah Decker
Leah enjoys walking alongside groups and individuals, inviting others into deepening intimacy and experience with God. She seeks to welcome Christ’s belovedness that dwells within each of us and to listen with boldness and grace. Boldness to silence the voices of the enemy and grace to listen for and invite the voice of the Beloved. Her love for exploring wild places leads her to venture into wild and beautiful places both in creation and in the wilderness places within our own souls. Leah joins our spiritual direction faculty with 20+ years of ministry experience, working with youth, college students, ministry leaders, missionaries, and more. She currently lives in a cabin in the Ozark hills of Southern Missouri with her husband, Nick, and their two cats, Garlic and Onion.
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Danielle Wheeler (Not accepting new clients at this time)
Danielle Wheeler lives in Carl Junction, Missouri with her husband Aaron and their four children Ellie, Aiden, Titus, and Eva. She is the founder of Velvet Ashes, a non-profit organization for women serving cross-culturally and currently serves as their director for spiritual development. She is an OCC alumni, a trained spiritual director, was a missionary for a number of years in Asia, and also knows what it is to serve the American church as a minister’s wife. It is her joy to walk with people who long for more in their spiritual life, who desire to experience what it means to be with God and hear from God.
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Sara Wood
Sara currently lives in Webb City, Missouri with her husband Shane and their family. They have two children at home—Maddox and Robert, and two in college—Zion and Paige. For more than 25 years Sara has served the church in a variety of ways as a pastor, lay leader, and volunteer. Currently, Sara works as a hospital chaplain and spiritual director. She spends a lot of her time with people experiencing crises and major life transitions. Her deepest passion is to accompany and hold space for pastors and leaders as they navigate their calling and discern what it means to grow and thrive as they build the Kingdom of God and journey alongside people.
How much is spiritual direction?
One-on-one spiritual direction costs $100 per session with a 6 or 12 session agreement.
However, thanks to our supporters who believe in your ministry, finances don’t have to prevent you from receiving everything God has for you. Some scholarships are available to offset the cost if needed.
How do I start the process?
What people like you are saying about spiritual direction at TRAIN International:
FAQs
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Spiritual direction is a specialized pastoral care and spiritual formation ministry that is as old as the Church itself. It is a set-aside time to focus on apprenticeship of the soul to Jesus in the fellowship of someone with a ministry of discernment, support, and prayer.
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A spiritual director helps you look for the presence of God in your life so that you can grow in intimacy with God, discern what God is inviting you into, and integrate following Jesus into your real world. Spiritual directors are generally trained for two or more years in various skills including active listening, asking powerful questions, discernment, spiritual disciplines, and prayer. Spiritual direction is as much a calling and a gifting as a skillset, so part of the training they receive is to test and validate their calling.
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Spiritual direction, mentoring, coaching, and counseling are all important ministries for the people of God, and each has a distinct place in the life of faith.
Each of these ministries uses skills likes listening well and asking great questions to help create clarity, but they are looking in different directions.
Counseling generally focused on looking backwards at the past in order to create opportunities for healing.
Coaching and Mentoring generally focuses on looking forward to what’s next in order to generate momentum.
Spiritual direction generally focuses on looking around in the present for God’s movement in order to increase awareness and intimacy with God.
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That’s a good point of discernment because sometimes spiritual direction is NOT what we need! Spiritual direction covers ground in a lot of areas of our lives, but the primary focus of spiritual direction is on your experience of God and your relationship with God. Here is a non-exhaustive list of indicators you can consider:
If you feel stuck in your relationship with God, spiritual direction might be a good fit for you.
If you are discerning next steps in a big transition, spiritual direction might be a good fit for you.
If you want to grow in spiritual discipline or in prayer, spiritual direction might be a good fit for you.
If you want to explore how your life or your story impacts your relationship with God, spiritual direction might be a good fit for you.
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The standard frequency of spiritual direction is about once a month. This gives space for the person receiving direction to work out, pray through, and reflect on what happened in the previous session without rushing. Spiritual direction, by design, is a slow process of discernment and mapping the soul, so there isn’t a rush to cover ground as quickly as possible.
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That’s a good question! Spiritual directors are generally bi-vocational and take time away from other forms of work in order to provide this much needed ministry. As such, we want to honor their training, their contribution, and their time by offering fair compensation. Other than directly paying the director, a portion of each direction fee helps underwrite the provision of pre-field training, debriefing retreats, and other ministries we offer to global workers.
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On the form you fill out to inquire about receiving spiritual direction, there is a question you answer to explore receiving a scholarship. We have a short, painless scholarship application that we use to help us steward the resources God is giving to us and make sure as many people as possible can receive the help they need.
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Simply put, we believe in this ministry and want to see others benefit from spiritual direction just like we have and, hopefully, just like you will. We want to empower each person who receives direction from us to be able to pay it forward by connecting another cross-cultural worker or ministry leader with this resource at the right time.
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We never want to trap anyone in spiritual direction, so there is always an opportunity to reassess. However, we have found that it takes about 6 meetings to really feel out the fit with a spiritual director. That’s why our spiritual direction agreements are in six-session intervals: to create a natural opportunity to assess how the relationship is going and discern if there will need to be a change. That said, we have had very few people ever request to switch directors.
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That’s wonderful! Your spiritual director would be the first person to really talk to about that. Our team has a list of trusted training organizations we have been trained by or have connections with that we would be happy to share with you, but the first step is really to discern in prayer and community if God is calling you to this kind of ministry.
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You certainly can if you and your spiritual director are in the same place! We find that often our directors are on different sides of the globe, so online is often the only option. However, if there is proximity you and your director can work that out!